Course Outline

    1. Maturation & Time

    2. Start with Emotions

    3. Phase 1 - Becoming Aware of our Emotional Needs

    4. Phase 2 - Learning to Meet Emotional Needs

    5. Phase 3 - Confronting and Resolving our Beliefs

    6. What I Believe

    7. Application: Escaping Negative Feelings

    8. Pause & Ponder

    1. Outlining Your Accountability Plan

    1. Emotional Needs Have a Purpose

    2. Seven Desires

    3. Application: Your Primary Desires

    4. More Emotional Needs

    5. Application: My Emotional Needs

    6. My Key Emotional Needs

    1. Starting with Behaviors

    2. We Have Become Stuck

    3. Plans for Expected Situations

    4. Plans for Unexpected Situations

    5. Emotional Care is Up to You

    6. Examples of Move Toward Behaviors

    7. Application: My Move Toward List

    8. PAUSE & PONDER

    1. The Stuff I want to Stop Doing

    2. Limiting What We Work On

    3. We are Limited on Purpose

    4. Choosing the Most Destructive First

    5. Unseen Sin

    6. Application: My Move Away From List

    7. Your Accountability Plan

About this course

  • $45.00
  • 11 Video Lessons

Effective Allies

Parts 1 & 2 Now Combined to One Course

Prevention of & Recovery Basics

from unwanted sexual behaviors

The word “accountability” is almost overused today. Many of us have tried accountability or having an ally to help us to move toward sexual integrity, only to find little success. That is not because the idea is flawed but because no one trained us how to have conversations in community that lead to greater sexual integrity.

Effective Allies Part 1 will show you three important aspects of conversations that greatly enhance our ability to leave unwanted sexual behaviors behind. This free course will help you and those you are in closest community with explore:

  • What is it I really want to leave behind?
  • What drives me toward sexual behaviors I don’t want?
  • If I am to leave unwanted sexual behavior behind, what do I move toward instead?


This course does not replace any book you may be going through or process you currently use to help you in sobriety. These are four simple discussion points to include in any program or discussion about sexual integrity. 

We highly encourage everyone seeking sexual integrity to take this free course and enhance your efforts to prevent or recover from unhelpful sexual behaviors.

Social Proof: Reviews

5 star rating

Very relevant & informative

Ron De Villa

Very helpful as a reminder

Very helpful as a reminder

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5 star rating

So far so good!

Rafael Luna

It is dealing with my feelings, not pornography, that has been my struggle. This is a great insight for me and will work well when I work with others.

It is dealing with my feelings, not pornography, that has been my struggle. This is a great insight for me and will work well when I work with others.

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5 star rating

Well thought out, clear and to the point

Stephen Nisbett

The information was easy to digest and apply to my daily life. I plan to use the information as I minister in my men's group.

The information was easy to digest and apply to my daily life. I plan to use the information as I minister in my men's group.

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5 star rating

Allies

Paul Hopkins

This is a very good start to self-realization.

This is a very good start to self-realization.

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5 star rating

I love it. I wish I would have seen this before.

Andy Eastham

BONUS HELP: This course is self-paced but if you ever have any questions, please reach out to us at [email protected] or 210-822-8201. As always, Pure Life Academy courses are yours for life and can be reviewd as often as you’d like.


WE GUARANTEE IT: If you complete this course and do not believe worth it, we will gladly refund your money without asking a question.

So click the button below and get started on your quest for the peace and confidence you've been looking for.

Content Source

Ministry Partner Pure Life Alliance

Pure Life Alliance is an intra-church network collaborating to bring healing and restoration to families and individuals impacted by sexual brokenness. This network links resources between churches, Christian counselors, and support group leader training to to assist men and women in their pursuit of healthy sexuality. Pure Life Alliance is a local organization working in the Portland, Oregon region.